Analingus is a normal part of oral sex for a man and woman. So what exactly is anilingus?
Anilingus / analingus is the oral and anal sex act in which a person stimulates the anus of another by using the mouth, including lips, tongue, or teeth. It is also called anal–oral contact and anal–oral sex; colloquial names include rimming and rim job. It may be performed by and on persons of any sexual orientation for pleasure or as a form of erotic humiliation.
Analingus Tip 1: Keep your sphincter and taint clean at all times. Rather than using toilet paper to wipe, hop in the shower and clean thoroughly after using the bathroom. This only takes a few minutes and truthfully, toilet paper doesn’t clean the ass, and definitely doesn’t clean the bacteria off your ass cheeks from the toilet seat. One bad experience below can last a lifetime. Hygiene is the most important part of a healthy “oral sex life”.
Analingus is so much a part of oral sex that if you do not let your tongue slide down to his/her sphincter, you aren’t doing it right! This idea is hard to accept for some men/women, because they think it’s gross or crossing a moral line. Much like when boys sit around the locker room at 13 and think it’s gross to eat a woman’s vagina, or girls vow they will never suck on that weird-looking phallus that hangs between a man’s legs. Sexual maturity and being with a partner you know is clean, you want to please, and you understand that the anal area on the human body is one of our first erogenous zones. Now, I am not saying men/women should perform analingus on a one night stand or someone they just met, but there are men/women that will. And these are the men/women that leave a lasting impression.
The real question is, if you are giving a man a blow job that you feel is unclean an inch away from his balls, why give him a blow job in the first place? I took this picture of Ryan one morning because I loved the way his body and penis looked when I first woke him up. In hindsight, this photo is a good example of how a man’s anatomy hangs naturally. As you can see, his balls and penis rest near his ass area. Do I consider his penis or balls “tainted” (pun intended) because they touch his ass throughout the day? Of course not! I love it. Thankfully Ryan is extremely self-conscious about his body and likes to keep himself shaved and clean, especially if I am about to give him oral sex. And not just his balls and penis, but also his ass.
Analingus Tip 2: If you want to enjoy analingus, groom your crotch, taint, and ass area. This goes for the ladies and men. If you want to send out your ass bat signal to your significant other, you will need to shave your ass area, specifically around your ass hole. Although this blog is pro analingus, it is also pro grooming and taking care of yourself. Ladies, as a bisexual woman, I am not coming near your ass hole if it isn’t shaved. If you enjoy hair or have a hair kink, the make sure to shampoo, shampoo, and wash your areas thoroughly to keep it enjoyable to your partner.